Thursday, February 26, 2009

Calling All Stressed Out Homeschool Moms ... This One is For You!

"How long do you think it takes me to undo all the cleaning my mommy does in a day? Try 15 minutes. That's right. I'm sure I hold the world record," said Ayinde, age 2 and a member of the My Mother Homeschools and I Have Fun Toddler Association.

Just kidding... but you get the point. Today was a doozy and it actually didn't have much to do with Ayinde. I ran out to pick up my son from basketball practice and came home to a house filled with smoke. Oh no! I had forgotten to turn off the broccoli. Earlier in the day I had arranged for my mother and grandmother to come over and help my husband with the children while I attend the Apologia Live Conference. The plan was for me to pick them up at 6:00 a.m. in the morning. Then I came home and checked the conference schedule again and discovered that the start time is actually 3pm on Friday! Okay, that's it. It's time for me to take a breather and really reflect on what this homeschool journey is all about. This is why I'm really excited about attending. Usually homeschool conferences are about curriculum and teaching, but this one is aimed at encouraging moms. I really need this because sometimes we can lose sight of our original mission, calling even. In this economy and in these times, juggling home businesses, toddlers, homeschooling, while trying to be a wife and remember the things that make you, you can be a daunting task. Well, it's not too late. I hope to see you there

Apologia LIVE Homeschool Moms Conference

Walking in the Light

Renew your vision ... Refresh your soul ... Rekindle your light
When: February 27-28, 2009
Where: Westin Hotel near the Baltimore-Washington airport
Why: To refresh, revitalize, restore, rebuild, recharge, renew, and rekindleWho: Hundreds of moms and inspiring speakers including: Debra Bell, Sally Clarkson, Rachael Carman, Elizabeth Smith, Zan Tyler
What: Fellowship … praise and worship … biblical teaching … encouragement … inspiration … renewal … refreshment

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Apologia Conference for Home School Moms


Someone from the conference planning committee must have been secretly videotaping my life. How did they know that I needed just this kind of help -- not with curriculum, I've got that. But with how to do it all!? How to be wife, mother, caretaker, medical transporter, chef, maid, social worker, teacher and a woman. In addition to all of the above, I've got to start generating some income to supplement our meager disability income. God must know that this kind of pressure will bring out the gifts that are hidden deep in my soul. That's the only way I can look at it otherwise I'd probably snap from the pressure. In that vein, it's time for me to start writing again, on a regular basis, and getting paid as Dr. Kaggwa, my favorite Professor from Howard University would say. Anyway, if you are feeling remotely close to the way I'm feeling, maybe you want to attend this conference. P.S. As you can see here, Ayinde is having a meltdown as we "pose for the picture."



APOLOGIA LIVE CONFERENCE FOR HOMESCHOOL MOMS


Apologia is pleased to announce the first Apologia LIVE Conference for Homeschool Moms. The event will be held February 27-28, 2009 at the Westin Hotel near the Baltimore-Washington airport .


Music lessons ... soccer practice ... standardized testing … laundry ... lesson plans ... grocery shopping … curricula decisions ... bills ... toddlers ... teenagers ... bickering ... phonics ... vacuuming ... SAT prep ... fractions ... more laundry ... algebra ... diapers ... cooking ... college applications ... cleaning …It's easy to lose sight of the eternal in the midst of the demands of family life and homeschooling.


As the year progresses and the days grow shorter and darker, the to-do list seems to grow longer. Pressures and responsibilities mount. Discouragement can set in. Don't lose heart! February is the perfect time to reflect and regroup. A time to remember that Jesus said, “I am the Light of the world.” A time to reflect on Paul's words: “Walk as children of the Light.” And a time to ponder the Gospel of John that reminds us Jesus is “the Light that shines in the darkness.”

Make plans now to fight the mid-winter blues. Join us for the very first Apologia LIVE Homeschool Moms Conference Walking in the Light


Renew your vision ... Refresh your soul ... Rekindle your light


When: February 27-28, 2009Where: Westin Hotel near the Baltimore-Washington airportWhy: To refresh, revitalize, restore, rebuild, recharge, renew, and rekindle


Who: Hundreds of moms and inspiring speakers including: Debra Bell, Sally Clarkson, Rachael Carman, Elizabeth Smith, Zan Tyler


What: Fellowship … praise and worship … biblical teaching … encouragement … inspiration … renewal … refreshmentThis is going to be an exciting, spiritually refreshing event like no other.


It is specifically designed for homeschool moms and those thinking of homeschooling. We have planned this conference with you in mind. Fellowship with like-minded women will encourage you and renew you. All of the speakers are veteran homeschool moms who know the pitfalls, the pressure, and the panicked-times of homeschooling. Yet they also know the joys, blessings, and eternal benefits. All of the messages will focus on different aspects of walking in the light.


How blessed are the people who know the joyful sound!O LORD, they walk in the light of Your countenance. Ps. 89:15

http://www.apologiaonline.com/live/




Sunday, February 10, 2008

Forget Homework - It's a Waste of Time!

Forget Homework
It's a waste of time for elementary-school students.

By Emily Bazelon


Over the last decade, Japanese schools have been scrapping homework while American elementary schools have been assigning more of it. What gives-aren't they supposed to be the model achievers while we're the slackers? No doubt our eagerness to shed the slacker mantle has helped feed the American homework maw. But it may be the Japanese, once again, who know what they're doing.

Such is my conclusion after reading three new books on the subject: The Case Against Homework by Sara Bennett and Nancy Kalish; The Homework Myth by Alfie Kohn; and the third edition of The Battle Over Homework by Duke psychology professor Harris Cooper. If you already despise homework, Bennett and Kalish provide advice on how to plead with teachers and schools for mercy. If you're agnostic, as I was, Kohn is the meatier read. Kohn is the author of several rebellious books about education, and he exposes the lack of evidence for many of the standard arguments in favor of homework: that it boosts achievement, that it inculcates good study habits, that it teaches kids to take the initiative, that it's better than video games or whatever else kids do in their free time.

Cooper is one of Kohn's main foils and a leading scholar on the subject, so I picked up his book expecting to find a convincing counterargument defending homework. I didn't. Cooper's research shows that, much of the time, take-home assignments in elementary school are an act of faith. No one really knows whether all those math sheets and spelling drills add up to anything. If there's little or no evidence that younger students benefit from homework, why assign it at all? Or, to adopt Kohn's less extreme position in The Homework Myth, why make homework the rule rather than the rare and thought-through exception?

In The Battle Over Homework, Cooper has crunched the numbers on dozens of studies of homework for students of all ages. Looking across all the studies is supposed to offer a fairly accurate picture even though the science behind some of them is sketchy. For elementary-school students, Cooper found that "the average correlation between time spent on homework and achievement . hovered around zero." In Kohn's book, he highlights a 1998 study that Cooper and his colleagues did with second- through 12th-graders. For younger students, the amount of homework completed had no effect on test scores and bore a negative relationship to grades. (The results weren't quite so grim for older students. Their grades rose in relation to the amount of homework they completed, though their test scores did not.) Kohn looks at these findings and concludes that most homework is at best a waste of time and at worst a source of tedious vexation.

Cooper, despite his findings, continues to back the "10-minute rule"-10 minutes of homework in kindergarten and first grade, with 10 more minutes for each additional grade level. For support, he zeroes in on six studies conducted between 1987 and 2003. These included third- through fifth-graders, and they compared kids who did homework with kids who didn't. (In a rare moment of good science in this field, the kids were assigned randomly to one group or the other in four of the studies.) The homework kids performed better, but only on a "unit test"-a test of the material they'd been sent home to study. Which means that Cooper's best evidence doesn't refute one of Kohn's central claims-that the measurable benefits of homework diminish the longer students are tracked for. Take a snapshot of a math quiz on fractions after kids drill fractions at night and homework looks good. Take a longer view and the shine comes off.
Cooper's support for the 10-minute rule actually makes him a voice of homework moderation in light of evil-homework tales of kindergartners slogging through 130-word lists. But as Kohn writes, "We sometimes forget that not everything that's destructive when done to excess is innocuous when done in moderation." In response, homework advocates emphasize the inviting notion that homework in elementary school fosters good study habits. "Before you can build a house, you need to build the scaffolding," Cooper says. Giving young kids briefer take-home assignments "is like learning to add single-digit numbers before you can add double digits."
This claim seems to make intuitive sense to a lot of people, but there is no research to either support or debunk it-the association between early homework and study habits simply hasn't been studied. And to me, it makes no sense at all. Time management and a general notion of discipline are not refined and specific and cumulative skills like playing tennis or baseball. So, why should we think that practicing homework in first grade will make you better at doing it in middle school? Doesn't the opposite seem equally plausible: that it's counterproductive to ask children to sit down and work at night before they're developmentally ready because you'll just make them tired and cross? "Most twelve-year-olds are better [at time management] than most seven-year-olds regardless of how much homework they've been assigned," Kohn writes. "It's both naive and unhelpful to expect younger children to defer gratification or know how to engage in long-term planning."

Nor does most homework teach kids to take the initiative and make learning their own. Instead, it's about following directions. In The Homework Myth, Kohn muses that the real purpose may be to foster uncritical obedience so that when kids grow up they'll accept the long hours Americans are expected to work. I'm not sure I'm ready to join that conspiracy theory, but I do resent the lemminglike nature of homework and its incursion on my kid's time. Eli is at school for 6.5 hours a day already-that seems like plenty of opportunity to get across what they want to teach him.

Kohn makes one major exception to his skepticism about homework-the encouragement of reading for pleasure. But he counsels that schools should take care lest their prodding turn books from a joy into a chore. Eli and his classmates are supposed to write down the books that they've read or had read to them. I'm willing to try this, but wary. It's only the first month of school, and a friend's daughter has already pretended to have read books that clearly haven't left her shelf. Homework as temptation to fib: not the lesson that schools intend to teach, but probably one that a lot of students learn.

When I shopped around the arguments against homework, I discovered that how you feel about it depends a lot on what you think kids will do if they don't have any. Eli's homework seems like an imposition when I measure it against running around the playground or playing card games or building with blocks or talking to his little brother.

In response to this, Cooper delicately suggested that my idea of a childhood afternoon well-spent is idealized and elitist. Maybe so. But the argument that homework is a net benefit for most kids has a big weakness. When homework boosts achievement, it mostly boosts the achievement of affluent students. They're the ones whose parents are most likely to make them do the assignments, and who have the education to explain and help. "If we sat around and deliberately tried to come up with a way to further enlarge the achievement gap, we might just invent homework," New York educator Deborah Meier told Kohn.

I e-mailed the principal of Eli's public elementary school, Scott Cartland, to ask about homework, and he emphasized the value of encouraging reading and making room for long-term projects. But he also fell back on logic that he admits is not, well, logical. "It has been drilled into our collective psyche that rigorous schools assign rigorous homework," Cartland wrote. "I recognize that this is a ridiculous thought process, particularly since your research suggests otherwise, but it's hard to break the thinking on this one. How could we be a high-achieving school and not assign homework?" How indeed. I hope the education establishment begins to wrestle with this question. If not, maybe it's time to move to Japan.

Emily Bazelon is a Slate senior editor.Article URL: http://www.blogger.com/

Tuesday, September 18, 2007

Summer Fun 2007

Science Adventures Camp


Science Adventures Camp was really fun. I did a whole bunch of stuff. I made a space rover, space rocks, telescope, constellation box, and a science adventures board game. We went to Six Flags and we went to a water park instead of a regular pool. I got on the Superman roller coaster with Daddy and the Hurricane. The ride I like the most is the Hurricane and Superman roller coaster because it was fun and it went fast. It made me feel scary because of my stomach, even though it was a 35 foot drop, I wasn't afraid because I was with Daddy.








Washington International School

Dad became the "cool dad" of the camp with requests for
games of ping-pong and basketball. Before Eric started
started playing, none of the kids played Ping Pong.


Zion plays his favorite game BASKETBALL at WIS.




Zion always plays with the big boys at WIS.
Washington International School

In Zion's own words:
"I love this camp because I met new friends and had friends from last summer. I like the fact that we change classes. I took sports first and science and technology. I really like Zack, the counselor, because he knows how to play basketball and he played with me every day at camp. I like meeting people from all over the world. Obassa was from West Africa. Rahul was from
Ethiopia."






Thursday, July 5, 2007

How to Eat to Live




Zion participated in a gardening workshop that was a part of the Growing Food and Building Confidence program sponsored by the Nation of Islam. We learned the importance of urban gardening. Zion planted okra, created a seed chart, and transplated a flower. Next April we plan to participate in the gardening program offered by the Lederer Environmental Center in D.C. Each child get's his own plot of land to plant and harvest a variety of produce. It's a free program taught by an African American male horticulturalist with 30 years experience. You can't get any better than that!




Tuesday, April 17, 2007

My Little Genius

Zion has been so blessed to participate in a wonderful program since the Fall of 2006. Little Genius Science and Math combines hands-on experiences with science and math, mentoring, and of course, interaction with peers whose parents hold them to the same standards of excellence that we have for Zion. I told Jennifer (the founder of the program) today that I love the class. I learn so much. Today Zion learned about the anatomy of the eye and took home an eyeball he made. Anita, the curriculum writer, is awesome too. Each week I am so amazed. Now my son knows that he can have a career making artificial eyes. They are called OCULARISTS. Who knew!

For more information about Little Genius Science & Math Program, view this link:





Thursday, February 15, 2007

Playtime after a Day of Work




Since I was still in the hospital with Ayinde, today Zion spent part of the day working with Daddy delivering roses. In my opinion, this teaches him so much more than any of the “seat work” he does on a daily basis. He is learning that Daddy will do what is necessary to make extra money for the family. He is learning the value of hard work. He is learning how to be enterprising and conduct business because I know he is recording all of Daddy’s conversations in that Memorex brain of his. And the best part for Zion is pay day. Right now Zion has more money than I do. He’s been saving his birthday money and pay from his “part-time” jobs with Daddy and I think he’s over $100.00. He’s also learning how to budget. About a week ago Zion told me he needed a new toothbrush. I told him to use some of his money and purchase one. He took a second look at his toothbrush and said, “Nevermind. I think it’s okay.” I’ll bet you do. After a long day at work, Dad and Zion came back to the hospital to spend the rest of the evening with family. Their presence made Ayinde feel lessed stressed about being away from home.